my relationship in my family

If someone asks me what my family is lik, I will say that my family is like a harmonilus orchestra without a composer. In some families, fathers always act like a composer but my father doesn't. He is not like a composer but like a bass. A bass is the lowest instrument in the orchestra. Usually, we can't hear the sound of bass when all of the instruments' are played. However I think all of the instruments' sounds are controled by the bass. If the bass is not in the orchestra, the sounds of each instrument is not in harmony and also the sound of music is not as beautiful as the music that includes the bass. Similar with the bass, my father is not talkative and not a powerful leader. However he always puts his status on other family members which is a same relationship between the bass and other instruments.